One of many unhappy firsts

It looks like this will be the first Thanksgiving that Mum won't be able to be there.

We've talked about it, and while there's no firm decision yet, all signs are pointing to her not being able to join the family. Between a very long drive both directions, her uncertain mental state, and how she'd handle the whole experience, we're thinking it might be best if we didn't bring her.

The thought of it hurts beyond words.

But as I've always done, I try and do what's best for her, as unpleasant as it might be.

I'm going to suggest we go over and visit as a family sometime that day. Even if we can spend a little time with her, even if she's not aware of what day it is, she will still feel part of the family.